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Lets face it, no body is perfect. We all make, have made and will make many mistakes. That is the reality of human nature.

When it comes to asking intimate questions, we tend to forget that our partner is also a human being, who is imperfect and has a natural desire for intimacy.

Intimacy has a lot to do with sexuality and this is one of the most delicate, mysterious, complicated and misunderstood topics of all time.

But one fact is for sure: Sexuality has the power to leave deep psychological marks on anyone.

Since we are all imperfect human beings with a natural desire for intimacy, the end result can only be many mistakes with our sexuality that tend to leave a lot of deep psychological marks.

A good example is premarital sex. Many people feel that there is absolutely no problem with it and it’s suppose to be a part of every romantic relationship. However, it has a lot of long term repercussions that can negatively effect important aspects of anyone’s life.

Many of the people who practice premarital sex “usually come with the excuses of ‘no body waits for marriage anymore’,’no body is perfect’ or ‘you’re missing out’…”
(100 Questions Before Marriage eBook).

It’s true that no body is perfect, but it is better to be closer to perfection than closer to imperfection.

It is better to avoid what is harmful then just to follow our heart by living the present moment and tomorrow try to get away with it by saying “oh! it’s in the past, just forget about it”.

We human beings are made up from our past and our past forms part of our present and our future. Anything that was done in the past becomes part of you for the rest of your life consciously or subconsciously.

The following are a group of hard intimate questions to ask your partner that can help you understand more about the above statements and help uncover some of the intimate secrets that your boyfriend/girlfriend might be hiding.

Intimate questions to ask your partner:

1- What has been your most intimate experience?
2- Who has been your most intimate partner?
3- Do you still have feelings for an ex intimate partner?
4- How long did your most intimate relationship last?
5- Do you regret living those intimate experiences with that person?
6- What made you go that far?
7- Are you a virgin?
8- Do you rather follow your heart (that does not think) or your head (that does think)?
9- What do you think is better: premarital sex or premarital abstinence?
10- Do you think the past matters in a relationship?
11- How would you react if I had a more serious intimate relationship in the past?
12- Do you think it’s OK for me to still have feelings for an ex?
13- What is your definition of intimate?
14- Do you agree with: were there was fire, ashes remain?

For more intimate questions to ask your partner, simply download your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook, or get the 1000 Questions For Couples by relationship expert Michael Webb.

When it comes to the curiosity of men and women, both can vary in a big way. Asking good questions comes from curiosity. What is it that you want to know from your girlfriend that makes you curious? There could be a wide range of questions to ask but only few are what really matter.

They say that men are 80% sexual, 20 % romantic and that women are 80% romantic, 20% percent sexual. Good questions that have to do with getting to know who your real girlfriend is, are much more important than the curiosity of her physical attributes.

Simple questions can be a good start to know what are her interest for different things. A good example of those questions are the following:

What’s your favorite color?

What are your favorite hobbies?

What type of music do like to you listen to?

What games do you like to play?

Simple questioning, yet very effective answers that can strengthen the relationship. If you can figure out her likes and dislikes, you can compare it to yours and therefore, see how both can spend time more effectively and make the relationship prosper.

Many other good questions to ask your girlfriend can come from other interest that can vary from her life experiences, childhood, teenage years, and her current life.

However, these questions may vary depending on the relationship it self and each others interest, but that does not change the fact that asking questions is important with in a relationship.

Relationships grow throw the knowledge of the other person and asking good questions is one of the best ways to allow any relationship to grow. Although answers to a lot of things come with time, you can take advantage of it by asking before that time arrives.

Not only are you learning more about that person, but you are directly interacting with them and satisfying any doubts or concerns that you might have.

More serious questioning could be about her personal life. This has to do with her intimate experiences and her more emotional side. This is were the questions to ask about her past relationships come in to play.

When it comes to asking these types of questions to your girlfriend, things might be slightly more delicate than any other questioning you might have.

The reason: Were there was fire, ashes remain.

If you want more good questions to ask your girlfriend, you can get your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook were you will have much more serious and delicate questioning to do. You can also get your copy of Michael Webb’s 1000 Questions For Couples.