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Once you know a guy for awhile you may want to delve further into his personality. This may take actually questioning the guy. It is hard to have a meaningful conversation without one person questioning the other in some way. But what questions do you ask a guy?

Questioning him should be a bit different then asking your gal friends questions. You girls probably talk about makeup, fashion, work, dreams for the future, and maybe events you see on the news. As you know most guys are not interested in the makeup and fashion end of things. The questions need to be of a more masculine nature.

They would rather talk about sports, work, and possibly news events. Guys do like to talk about their future plans too. They love to talk about their career plans usually. So you have to gear the questions to what guys like to talk about. If you don’t they are not going to want to answer the questions.

It is fun sometimes just to play a 20 question-type game aimed at getting the answers you want. Let the him come up with 20 questions he gets to ask you along with the 20 you are going to ask him. Take turns asking each other these various curiosities about one another. This way both of you can enjoy this exchange of information.

This can lead to a very meaningful moment in your relationship. It really can deepen the extent of how you feel about each other. So do not be afraid to ask.

Now make sure your questions are designed to get the answers you want. Be very specific on what you need to have an answer for. If you are having a hard time thinking of the questions to ask this article can help you. Below are 20 questions you can ask…

20 Questions to Ask a Guy:

1. Would you still love me if all my skin got burned and scarred badly?

2. Are you highly motivated to become wealthy during your lifetime?

3. Do you become almost addicted to anything you like a lot? This could be a hobby, food, video games, or even watching sports on TV.

4. Do you have a vision for where your career will take you in the near future?

5. Are you a person that is mechanically inclined or do you hate that type of task?

6. If you were stranded on a high mountain top, what type of things would you want with you?

7. Do you like warm or cold weather?

8. How do you like your coffee that is if you drink it?

9. Was your father bald headed?

10. What level of education do you have? Would you like to have more?

11. Do you know how to work on your car or do you always need a mechanic?

12. Are you handy fixing things around the house?

13. What flavor of ice cream is your favorite?

14. What type of underwear do you wear?

15. What brand of jeans do you like the best?

16. Which shoes are the most comfortable for you to wear?

17. What type of car do you like to drive in?

18. Have you ever gone hunting? If so do you like and still do it?

19. Do you enjoy camping, fishing, or hiking?

20. Do you like playing card games, especially poker? Also are you a chess player?

As you can see, by these questions the range of information that can be found out is mighty. Like and dislikes can be explored. There might be certain things you want to explore in depth, like religion and sexual views if you relationship has progressed that far. You could also be a workout fanatic looking for a partner, so your questions might be more in that vein.

If you are a sports fanatic you might want to know what team the guy roots for. You may also want to know if he minds doing mundane things with you like shopping. So write your questions carefully.

Whatever type of information you want to find out, questions are the tools to use to learn it. This goes with guys and in all your life. Never be afraid to ask the questions. The only wrong question is the one that is left unasked.

When you are dating your boyfriend it is fun to ask him questions to see how he thinks and feels.

You may be wondering what these questions should be though. Do you ask funny things or serious, you may be asking?

Below is a list of questions that you might like to ask your boyfriend for fun.

Note: this post was inspired by one of our previous post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

Fun Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend:

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1. What has life’s lessons taught you about how to live?
2. What do you consider an important virtue for a person to have?
3. Where do you see yourself 30 years from now?
4. If you have had other girlfriends why do you think that you broke up?
5. Could you love a woman if she has been scarred and crippled through a tragic accident? Or would you run from her in her time of need?
6. Do you remember the first time you kissed a girl?
7. What quality do I possess that you like more than all the others?
8. What type of first impression did I make on you?
9. Who is your very closest friend of any sex?
10. How do you picture the ideal female?

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11. What was the name of the very first girlfriend you had?
12. What is you most precious secret, if you don’t mind sharing?
13. Would you share me with another guy, or do you want me all to yourself?
14. At what stage in your life would you contemplate marriage?
15. Which of my personality traits do you like the least?
16. If we went fishing would you bait my hook for me?
17. What would you consider a reason to break off our relationship?
18. If I had a terminal disease would you support me through it and love me anyway?
19. If I had to work off in a far away country for several years would you still stay faithful to me, and be here when I came back?
20. Do you have any plans for your financial future?

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21. What would it take to convince you that I am the one you should be with for the rest of your life?
22. Do you have religious beliefs, and if so what are they?
23. If you were on a deserted island what 3 things would you want with you?
24. What country would you like to visit?
25. What activity have you always dreamed about doing and have not been able to do yet?
26. Do you have an idea for a dream car? What features would it have?
27. What moment in your life has made you be the most intimate with someone?
28. Do you have any lingering feelings for any of you ex girlfriends?
29. Have you had sex yet? If so do you remember the first time?
30. Do you only do what your brain tells you, or are you tuned into what your heart wants you to do?

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31. Do you prefer to stay abstinent from sex until marriage?
32. Should things that happened in our past have an affect on our present relationships?
33. Are the people you are friends with high energy or do you prefer the laid-back personality?
34. On your days off do you get up and at it anyway or are you a stay in bed until noon person?
35. What genre of music do you like listening to the best and why?
36. What is the one goal that you feel you need to attain in your life?
37. What one person has had more influence over your life than any other?
38. What is your worst habit?
39. What is the most embarrassing situation you have ever been in?
40. What would be the characteristics of a fun and idyllic life to you?

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41. If we get married where would you want to go for a honeymoon?
42. If you were a professional player for a sports which one would it be?
43. If you designed a car, what features would you put in it?
44. When you get bored how do you get out of it?
45. Is there anyone you know that does not like you? Why?
46. What is the most life-changing decision you have ever made?
47. Is there anything in your life that you would change if you could live it over?
48. What is the happiest and funniest day in your life been?
49. Do you like answering questions people ask you?
50. Do you enjoy spending time by yourself?

You will undoubtedly come up with more fun questions to ask than these listed. This list will give you a start on some fun things to ask your boyfriend though. Have fun and enjoy your relationship. May it bring you many enjoyable moments.

For more interesting, romantic and  fun questions to ask your boyfriend, get your copy of  the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook, or Michael Webb’s eBook 1000 Questions For Couples today!

Are you wondering how you get to know a guy? Most guys are not highly talkative right off the bat. Woman usually have to drag information out of them. Here are some “questions to ask a guy” though that may let you get to know them better.

Note: This post was inspired by one of our previous post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

Questions To Ask A Guy:

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1. If you could be a car what make and model would you be?

2. What disaster would you save the world from if you were a superhero?

3. Would you love a woman even if she was not thin and hot looking?

4. Could you like a woman strictly for her brains, thoughts and feelings?

5. Which do you think is more devastating global warming or global cooling? (I think I would hate global cooling myself.)

6. If you wrote a book about your life how thick would it be?

7. If a movie was made about your life would it be a drama, comedy, tragedy, or a musical?

8. Do you have just male friends or do you have women that are your friends too?

9. What traumatic event in your life have you had to overcome if any?

10. What person that you have known played an integral part in shaping your personality and values?

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11. Do you surf the net for fun or educational purposes?

12. Are you one of the up and coming Web entrepreneurs?

13. Is money just a way to live for you or does it have a more serious value for you?

14. Are you so ambitious about having success that you will not let anyone stand in your way?

15. Do you think wealth and social standing say what type of man you are?

16. Does you temper ever get the best of you at the wrong times, or are you just a happy-go-lucky guy?

17. Do you like to stay up on the world situation or do you just want to hear the good news?

18. Could you lie to a loved one and it not bother you?

19. How large of a home theater setup do you dream about?

20. Is your idea of a perfect date a night on the town, or a quiet evening with dinner and a movie?

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21. If you were told by a doctor that you had 2 months to live, what things would you want to do in those months?

22. Do you have religious views on God?

23. When you sit down for a meal is it just meat and potatoes or do you like to spice your food up a bit more?

24. Are you an earlier riser on your days off or do you lounge in be for half the day?

25. Do you enjoy being outdoors as in going camping, hiking, or fishing?

26. Do you believe in hunting?

27. If you were to be in a band what genre of music would you be playing?

28. Are you a democrat, republican, or maybe an independent?

29. What are your religious affiliations?

30. If you were to write an ad on yourself what would your slogan be?

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31. If we fell in love would marriage be a consideration for you.

32. Would you like to have children one day?

33. When you travel do you like to do sightseeing, or do you just like to sit by a pool and read.

34. What are your aspirations for your life?

35. Do you have any long term financial goals?

36. What do you feel your weak points are?

37. What do you think your strong points are?

38. Do you have any traits in your personality that you would like to change?

39. What is the hardest decision you ever had to make been?

40. What do you think an idyllic life would be?

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41. Have you ever had an extremely embarrassing situation happen to you?

42. If you could go back in time and change a point in history, what would it be?

43. What country would you like to visit?

44. Is there anyone that does not like you that you know of? Why do they not like you?

45. Is there anyone who you consider to be a hero in your life?

46. Do you like sci-fi flicks or do you like other types of adventure flicks more?

47. Are you a sports addict, do you have to watch all the teams playing, not just your hometown?

48. Don’t you just love answering answering questions that people ask you, so they can get to know you?

49. What questions would you like to ask me to know me better?

50. What is your question to ask a guy?

Now you know a bit more of what to ask guys to get to know them better. You probably have some other questions of your own that you can come up with.

For more good and hard questions to ask a guy, download your copy of 1000 Questions For Couples by relationship  expert Michael Webb, or the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook.