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Relationships can be a complex and sometimes, its hard to know if you’re with the right person.  Even if you get along well, you might have some basic differences in opinions or goals that can turn into conflict later on.

The following are a group of 101 questions to ask your boyfriend that are different from the many other questions posted on this blog and on our previous post: “Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend“.

101 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1-20

1. Are you looking for a long term relationship?
2. How do you feel about ex relationships?
3. How do you feel about kids?
4. If you want kids, how many do you want?
5. Should one person in a relationship stay at home with the kids?
6. Does it matter who it is?
7. How do you feel about your family?
8. How do you feel about your partner’s family?
9. Are you religious?
10. Do you go to church?
11. Does your partner need to go with you?
12. How do you feel about people with beliefs that differ from yours?
13. How do you feel about birth control?
14. Whose responsibility is it?
15. How do you show you love your partner?
16. How should your partner show they love you?
17. How do you react when your partner does something that ticks you off?
18. Is cheating ever okay?
19. Is it ever okay to lie to or deceive your partner?
20. Do you ever want to get married?

21-40

21. Would you want a big wedding or a small one?
22. What’s your perfect honeymoon?
23. Are there any groups of people you just can’t stand?
24. Are there any people you think are just better than others?
25. Do you like pets?
26. Do you think it’s okay to tell your partner what to do/wear/say?
27. Do you have strong political opinions?
28. Should both people in a relationship agree on everything?
29. Do you prefer to sleep together, or alone?
30. Should a couple share a room, or should each person have his or her own space?
31. Do you get jealous?
32. Who do you get jealous of?
33. What do you do about it?
34. Is it okay for your partner to have girl friends?
35. How about same guy friends?
36. How much time should couples spend together?
37. Do you ever feel like your partners are too clingy?
38. Do you ever feel as though your partners are too distant?
39. Which comes first, work or a relationship?
40. How much money do you need to be happy?

41-60

41. Do you prefer to share finances with your partner, or keep them separate?
42. How do you feel about sex outside of marriage?
43. Is there anything we can do in bed that you think is just wrong?
44. What’s your sex drive like?
45. Any kinks I should know about?
46. Are looks important in someone you’re dating?
47. If I got fat, would you dump me?
48. What if I lost a lot of weight?
49. Who are your exes and why’d you break up?
50. What makes a relationship a success?
51. How about what makes one a failure?
52. Is money important?
53. Do you respect women?
54. How about men?
55. Are there any big, innate differences between the sexes?
56. Ever had your heart broken?
57. Do you still have feelings for your exes?
58. What would you do if one of them asked you back?
59. What was your longest previous relationship?
60. What kind of movies do you like?

61-80

61. What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekends?
62. Exercise – fun or a drag?
63. How about the great outdoors?
64. Do you smoke?
65. How do you feel when other people smoke?
66. Do you eat meat?
67. Do you have strong feelings about animals?
68. Are you a political activist?
69. Do you keep kosher/halal/have dietary restrictions?
70. Do you like to read?
71. Do you like to learn?
72. What’s your worst habit?
73. What would you rather change about yourself?
74. What do you wish you could change about me?
75. What do you like best about me?
76. What do you like best about yourself?
77. Should couples spend time apart?
78. Should couples have all the same hobbies?
79. Do you keep secrets from your lovers?
80. What kind of secrets are ok?

81-100

81. What would you do if I were in a disfiguring accident?
82. A disabling one?
83. What are you allergic to?
84. Do you have any major medical conditions I should know about?
85. How about phobias?
86. What are your career goals?
87. Do you move a lot?
88. Do you expect to keep on moving?
89. Which is better, the country, the city or the suburbs?
90. Where did you grow up?
91. Do you like one part of the world/country best?
92. Do you like my friends?
93. Do your friends like me?
94. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
95. What’s your idea of the perfect date?
96. Should relationships require work?
97. Do you believe in true love?
98. Which is better, thinking or feeling?
99. How do you make decisions?
100. What does love mean to you?
101. Do you love me?

Some of these questions are serious and some not.  However, all of them have the potential to change a relationship for better or worse.  From little things like what movies you like to watch and how do you like to spend a Friday night. To the big things like kids, a career and religion. Knowing a lot about your boyfriend can help you decide if you’re right for each other and it will also help you see the compromises that can or can not be made.

If you’re in a relationship and you are not sure about it, maybe you need to ask some of the above questions.  Don’t ask them all at once – your boyfriend will just feel like he’s being interrogated.  Instead, go through this list and think about whether you know the answer to these 101 questions. The more you know about each other, the better your chances are of finding out whether your relationship is going to last.

Get your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook and for more questions to ask your boyfriend, feel free to instantly download your copy of 1000 Questions For Couples today!

People can be so mysterious and at the same time so clear. The enigmatic part of a person is only the big knowledge gap of the little that we know about them. But the reality is that they are normal human beings just like us and everyone else.

They have feelings, a family, personal issues, economic problems (even if they are rich or poor), passions, desires, goals, flaws, virtues, sorrows, ego, etc.

Little understanding about anything forms the universal result of ignorance.

Ignorance has its own consequences in any type of situation or relationship that can range from lost opportunities, slow progress, misunderstanding and constant conflict.

To full fill the knowledge gap of ignorance it is necessary to have the facts about whatever it is that we are ignorant about and this would include a person.

The facts can come from many different sources and one of these sources are questions.

Here are a few of random “get to know you questions” that can apply to anyone but they are more targeted to men since women would tend to have a more emotional set of questions.

Random Questions to Ask a Guy:

1. What are your future financial plans?
2. What is your mayor goal in life?
3. What is your favorite book?
4. How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
5. What are your mayor flaws?
6. Who is your hero?
7. What do you consider most important in life?
8. What would be your questions to ask on a first date?
9. Do have any type of bad habit?
10. What is your point of view of the world?
11. What are your priorities on a first date?
12. How would you describe the perfect life?
13. What country would you choose for a honeymoon?Why?
14. What has been your most embarrassing moment?
15. What do you do when you are bored?
16. How do you spend time with your family?
17. Do you have any enemies? Why?
18. What has been the most important decisions in your life?
19. What experiences have marked you the most?
20. If you could change the past, what would you change?
21. How do you visualize your future?

A few of these random questions can be considered hard to answer if the person has not paid attention to that specific idea in the past.

These questions can be directed to a guy since they are more focused on goals that a future husband will have to accomplish. The above random questions would be the type of appropriate questioning that should be asked in a relationship.

Feel free to download your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook for more “random questions to ask a guy”. You can also download Michael Webb’s 1000 Questions For Couples.

Can you imagine a world without questions? How would relationships be without them? The answer: less comprehension and more misunderstanding.

Understanding and comprehension is needed in every relationship because they are the fuel that keep trust alive. In a romantic relationship, no trust means no intimacy and without intimacy the relationship is definitely not romantic.

Couples who have understanding and comprehension also have trust and therefore, have more intimacy because of it. They also feel more comfortable being around their partner.

One of the main reasons why it’s so difficult to recovery from an infidelity is because couples lose trust and at the same time lose intimacy. Questions about that infidelity might help give a little more comprehension and understanding to why it happened and at the same time restore some trust.

The following are 21 questions to ask a guy in order to understand and comprehend more about him and the relationship, and help build comprehension, understanding and trust.

21 Questions to Ask a Guy:

1- If I had an accident and be left with terrible scars for life, would you still love me?

2- What is it of me that you like the most?

3- How do you remember your “first love”?

4- After me, who is your closest female friend? (excluding your mother, and other family members)

5- How do you remember my first impression?

6- Would you leave me for a celebrity that really really liked you?

7- Are you a virgin?

8- Do you still have feelings for an ex?

9- What is your best kept intimate secret?

10- How do you visualize the perfect woman? What are her attributes?

11- Who was your first girlfriend?

12- How would you react if I was dating another guy?

13- At what age do you plan to get married?

14- What is it that you don’t like about me?

15- What would be your best reason to break up with me?

16- How would you react if the doctor told me that I have a deadly disease? Would you still love me?

17- If I had to move far away for many years, would you wait for me?

18- If we had a child born with health problems, how would you handle the situation?

19- What are your financial goals for the future?

20- How and when would you know if I am the right one?

21- Do you believe in God? Why?

These 21 questions are the type of “get to know you questions” you need because they range from various topics: financial, intimate, religious, health, etc.

Some of these hard questions to ask your boyfriend might be difficult for him to answer if he knows you’re not going to like the response.

That’s exactly how you can identify what are his real thoughts about you and the relationship, and that’s exactly how you can correct anything that could be a problem.

This is why premarital questions for couples are important: they help resolve problems before they arrive.

These 21 questions are only a few of many other fun questions that you can ask a guy. By downloading your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook or the famous 1000 Questions For Couples by Michael Webb, you have a lot of more serious questioning to do.