Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend
We all want to know a little bit more about our girlfriends and sometimes it seems that many women tend to announce who they are as time passes by. Most of us guys like to cut straight to the facts and want the answers given to us right away.
The following is a list of deep, good, funny, awkward, personal and random questions to ask your girlfriend that can result great for getting to know a little bit more about that special female you are committed to.
Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend:
About us
1. Why are you my girlfriend?
2. If you would have never met me, who would have been your boyfriend?
3. What was your first impression of me?
4. What do you consider the most important values in a man?
5. What is the one characteristic that you find in a guy that makes them most attractive?
6. Is there a characteristic or trait that you find unattractive about me?
7. When you visualize the “perfect” relationship, what is it that you see?
8. What are the things that you admire most about me?
9. Besides your father (or other family members) who is your closest male friend?
About you
10. When it comes to life in general, what do you feel is the most important thing of all?
11. How would you describe “happiness”?
12. In reviewing your life, what would you say your biggest mistake was?
13. What do you do now in order to ensure never to make that mistake again?
14. If you were allowed to describe yourself as a person using three to four words, what would they be?
15. What do you consider to be your three major strengths?
16. What would you describe as your three major weaknesses?
17. What type of relationship did you have with your parents while growing up?
18. How do you get along with your parents now?
19. Do you enjoy spending time with friends and relatives, or do you prefer being alone?
20. When you spend time with friends, what do you enjoy doing?
21. When you spend time with your family, what do you enjoy doing?
22. When there is nothing to do, what types of things do you entertain yourself with?
23. Who do you consider your best friend, and why is that?
24. In your past relationships, what circumstances led to the breakup?
25. Have you ever been in a committed relationship and broke from it by engaging in an affair with another person?
Do you?
26. Do you consider yourself to be an honest person?
27. Do you believe that love involves following your heart, or your head?
28. Do you still have feelings for someone that you once shared a relationship with?
29. Do you have any specific plans for the future when it comes to your permanent relationship?
30. Do you believe in living with someone before you are married to them?
31. Do you feel that a high value should be placed on money, or relationships?
32. Do you feel as if you are a trusting person? If not, what makes it difficult for you to trust others?
33. Do you believe when people are just dating, that it is OK for them to date more than one individual at a time?
34. Do you feel as if you are able to get along with others well, or do you feel as if most people do not understand you well?
35. Do you currently have any type of financial goals for your future? If so, what is one example?
36. Do you have a book that you consider your favorite of all time? If so, why do you enjoy it so much?
37. Do you view someone that you know, or know of as a “hero”? If so, what makes this individual so special?
38. Do you often feel as if you are a victim of circumstance?
39. Do you suffer from a habit that you consider to be “bad”?
40. Do you feel as if you are a positive or negative person?
How would you describe…
41. How would you describe the most romantic night of your life?
42. How would you describe intimacy?
43. How would you describe love?
What if?
44. If someone you were in a relationship with were to become mentally disabled, like through the means of a car accident or stroke, would you continue in the relationship with them?
45. If you were to become a mother of a child who was born with some type of birth abnormality, how would you react?
46. If I had to travel for one reason or another, and you were not able to come along, how would you react in waiting for me?
47. If you were offered five million dollars in exchange for leaving everything you have behind (including me), would you do it?
48. If someone you were in a relationship with were to become physically disabled, would you continue in the relationship with them?
General Questions
49. Throughout your life, what experiences do you feel contributed most to the person that you have become today?
50. Life is marked by a handful of experiences that change the direction we take. What would you say is one experience that changed the course of your life in general?
51. What is an example of one major decision that you have made, and how did you handle the situation?
52. We are all “diamonds in the rough”. In order for me to get past that stage, what would you say I need to focus on most?
53. Have you had an experience that you consider to be the most embarrassing? Why was it embarrassing?
54. What type of pet do you enjoy the most, and why do you like that particular type?
55. What is your opinion when it comes to marriage?
As you can see, there are many questions that you can ask your girlfriend that can help provide you with some type of perspective on who she is, how she thinks, what she values and what are her own values.
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February 6th, 2010 at 6:14 pm
love this,thanks
March 2nd, 2010 at 8:22 am
it makes my skin tingle thanks
April 8th, 2010 at 10:21 pm
I was looking for questions to ask my girlfriend and I found it. Thanks for the great experience.
May 13th, 2010 at 9:33 pm
Some of these make the male seem like she is really great and he wonders why he even got her… showing that he is of low value (just a loser who thinks women are some angels and he is not worthy)
Just think about the question and what effect it will have on ur gf if u ask her the questions…. women think into this stuff WAY to much…. just be careful
May 16th, 2010 at 1:15 am
the thing is im 14 and my gf is 14, so some of these questions might not start up a convo
May 22nd, 2010 at 1:13 am
Wow.. Thanks haha..
May 26th, 2010 at 3:28 pm
THIS IS AWESOME!
I LIKE IT.
THANK YOU GUYS.
June 8th, 2010 at 12:26 am
im only 13 but so is she it may not work that much cuz we jus ask questions
June 8th, 2010 at 2:30 am
Ahaha i am learning so much from this girl i like… This is great my feelings for her keep getting deeper.
July 1st, 2010 at 2:59 pm
ya dis questions are good hope dis meks it work better
July 2nd, 2010 at 11:08 pm
these questions are awsome i just wanna say i love my bby so much and shes the best 1-29-09
July 13th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Ok so I read the questions to ask a guy and then I read this and they don’t seem to match up. I mean the questions that are listed here are ok but if you read the questions that a girl may want to ask her guy, its not even close. Those questions are sure promote more questions. I mean it asks questions about ex girlfriends, intimate moments, what you did with some ex, who would you be dating if not your current girl…Seriously? So here you get lolly pop questions and on the guys side you get some questions that if the couple is not at a really comfortable level with each other, could do some damage to their relationship. Not sure if this is correct…and I am not saying this because I am a guy but because these questions should be balanced on both ends.
October 21st, 2010 at 1:25 pm
i luv this man its helped me a lot
October 22nd, 2010 at 7:10 pm
I AM FEELING U IN MY MISSING MIND OTHERWISE THERE HAVE NO WAYS
October 28th, 2010 at 5:50 am
hi frnds its pakka… u guyz r doin great job, it helps many gals and boyz.
November 21st, 2010 at 10:26 pm
This question is very helpful and I even let her ask me the “Question To Ask Your Boyfriend”… -Thanks-
November 25th, 2010 at 2:47 am
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November 25th, 2010 at 9:09 pm
No problem Tevin. Always glad to help.
November 26th, 2010 at 8:46 pm
this is cute. my guy & i are only 14. so some of these questions are a little.. for the future type thing. But they are great things to think about. :)
January 1st, 2011 at 11:34 pm
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January 14th, 2011 at 1:43 am
wow this made my girlfriend scared LOL rofl its a good convo starter!
February 23rd, 2011 at 6:31 pm
Wow Guys Thanks I am on the phone right now asking these questions to my girlfriend … lol
February 25th, 2011 at 4:12 pm
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April 27th, 2011 at 3:52 pm
dope! helped me alot thanxx(:
May 18th, 2011 at 8:11 pm
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June 3rd, 2011 at 1:29 am
money change everything..it’s a practical world,so she left me and loved my rich and famous friend and classmate….peace
June 9th, 2011 at 5:23 pm
Ths questions are so impressive, i like it..
October 10th, 2011 at 8:54 pm
i love these is an understatement
October 19th, 2011 at 6:05 am
i need to perform wisdon with my girlfriend she is more educated than me why am more wiser than she.
November 16th, 2011 at 3:23 am
The questions given above are really great, but according to me love is not a problem that would be solve by a particular formula.So i will suggest you guys pls follow ur heart while asking anything to ur gf and pls don’t blindly follow any kind of formula or tricks…..
December 7th, 2011 at 9:54 pm
I jus wanted to say dat some of dese questions won’t work for me. I’m only 13 and so is my gf. Although we’ve gone out like 3 times. I feel if some of dese questions will help. Thanks if they do. Oh and my gf doesn’t want to kiss me for some reason. She that over the weekend she had the swine flu. But she seems fine at school. Hopefully these questions will help.
December 27th, 2011 at 7:16 am
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January 6th, 2012 at 3:56 pm
wawawawa these are very good and help questions I asked my girl friend with these questions to see how much does she love me and I prove her that she took me for granted .
January 8th, 2012 at 6:16 pm
Im only 13 but I like it, in my opinion it helps
January 8th, 2012 at 6:20 pm
Jjust some really good questions thanks
January 30th, 2012 at 5:05 am
Great experience I learned a lot about this one girl I like it it’s great! I feel like I could tell her anything!! Thx guys
January 31st, 2012 at 4:29 pm
Always glad to help Chase!
January 31st, 2012 at 4:36 pm
Good point Sateesh. I agreee.
February 19th, 2012 at 6:04 pm
just recently gave my girlfriend eight red roses an valentines day card and she gave me one with the words if you will be mine so i said course i will be youurs forever!!!!!
February 19th, 2012 at 6:27 pm
me and my girlfriend recently exchanged valentines day cards i gave her one and she gave me one with the words willl you be mine? so i said coruse ill be yours forever?
February 24th, 2012 at 5:41 pm
some of these questions are usefull :)
March 17th, 2012 at 7:23 pm
These questions were really good thanx a lot guys keep it up
April 4th, 2012 at 10:12 pm
Well these questions may help in some cases, but it really depends on the person. My boyfriend wouldnt ask these questions in a million years and I wouldnt answer them in a million years. I do love him with all of my heart but its just not helpful for us. We communicate… Differently…
April 11th, 2012 at 4:14 pm
haha i just got into a fight with my gf becuase of these qeustions
April 23rd, 2012 at 7:53 pm
I like the first 9, we have been dating for a year and a half, had a couple of break ups inbetween but still together even though were only 15 and 16(me)
May 7th, 2012 at 7:24 am
thanks alot…
May 11th, 2012 at 5:14 am
Nice questions! I fired my girl with some of these questions and realised I almost missed my luck. One love guys.
May 11th, 2012 at 5:19 am
Nice questions! I asked my girl some of these questions and realised I almost missed my luck. One love guys.
May 20th, 2012 at 7:31 pm
This really sucks even after already getting to know my GF and we can talk and open up to eachother easily, I ask 2 of these and she can’t answer any. Also, WTF are questions that refeer to ex BF’s/ GF’s doing here?!
May 22nd, 2012 at 10:23 pm
Dat’s gr8.
May 27th, 2012 at 10:08 pm
Indeed, it is very helpful with the questions and the information is extremely useful to talk to someone like your partner.
June 2nd, 2012 at 4:41 pm
tanx
August 1st, 2012 at 1:58 am
i asked my girl these questions and she told me that she sleep with 4 guys and dose porn for a living what should i do
August 5th, 2012 at 9:10 am
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September 2nd, 2012 at 6:02 pm
Most questions are good but the question about taking $5 million to leave everyone and everything is flat out stupid
December 2nd, 2012 at 12:00 pm
Im 13 and my girlfriend is 13 so most of these questions aren’t that big of help…..could some people make questions or the younger people?
January 5th, 2013 at 11:52 pm
ME and my girlfriend are both recovering crackheads, i tried these questions on her, and she tried to drew me a fancy whale.. what does this mean? this is before the line of cocaine she does off my cock.
February 27th, 2013 at 5:27 pm
these are great questions but im only 14 and my gf 14, someone needs to make some questions for younger people my age it will be more helpful