Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

We all want to know a little bit more about our girlfriends and sometimes it seems that many women tend to announce who they are as time passes by. Most of us guys like to cut straight to the facts and want the answers given to us right away.

The following is a list of deep, good, funny, awkward, personal and random questions to ask your girlfriend that can result great for getting to know a little bit more about that special female you are committed to.

Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend:

Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

About us

1. Why are you my girlfriend?
2. If you would have never met me, who would have been your boyfriend?
3. What was your first impression of me?
4. What do you consider the most important values in a man?
5. What is the one characteristic that you find in a guy that makes them most attractive?
6. Is there a characteristic or trait that you find unattractive about me?
7. When you visualize the “perfect” relationship, what is it that you see?
8. What are the things that you admire most about me?
9. Besides your father (or other family members) who is your closest male friend?

About you

10. When it comes to life in general, what do you feel is the most important thing of all?
11. How would you describe “happiness”?
12. In reviewing your life, what would you say your biggest mistake was?
13. What do you do now in order to ensure never to make that mistake again?
14. If you were allowed to describe yourself as a person using three to four words, what would they be?
15. What do you consider to be your three major strengths?
16. What would you describe as your three major weaknesses?
17. What type of relationship did you have with your parents while growing up?
18. How do you get along with your parents now?
19. Do you enjoy spending time with friends and relatives, or do you prefer being alone?
20. When you spend time with friends, what do you enjoy doing?
21. When you spend time with your family, what do you enjoy doing?
22. When there is nothing to do, what types of things do you entertain yourself with?
23. Who do you consider your best friend, and why is that?
24. In your past relationships, what circumstances led to the breakup?
25. Have you ever been in a committed relationship and broke from it by engaging in an affair with another person?

Do you?

26. Do you consider yourself to be an honest person?
27. Do you believe that love involves following your heart, or your head?
28. Do you still have feelings for someone that you once shared a relationship with?
29. Do you have any specific plans for the future when it comes to your permanent relationship?
30. Do you believe in living with someone before you are married to them?
31. Do you feel that a high value should be placed on money, or relationships?
32. Do you feel as if you are a trusting person? If not, what makes it difficult for you to trust others?
33. Do you believe when people are just dating, that it is OK for them to date more than one individual at a time?
34. Do you feel as if you are able to get along with others well, or do you feel as if most people do not understand you well?

35. Do you currently have any type of financial goals for your future? If so, what is one example?
36. Do you have a book that you consider your favorite of all time? If so, why do you enjoy it so much?
37. Do you view someone that you know, or know of as a “hero”? If so, what makes this individual so special?

38. Do you often feel as if you are a victim of circumstance?
39. Do you suffer from a habit that you consider to be “bad”?
40. Do you feel as if you are a positive or negative person?

How would you describe…

41. How would you describe the most romantic night of your life?
42. How would you describe intimacy?
43. How would you describe love?

What if?

44. If someone you were in a relationship with were to become mentally disabled, like through the means of a car accident or stroke, would you continue in the relationship with them?
45. If you were to become a mother of a child who was born with some type of birth abnormality, how would you react?
46. If I had to travel for one reason or another, and you were not able to come along, how would you react in waiting for me?
47. If you were offered five million dollars in exchange for leaving everything you have behind (including me), would you do it?
48. If someone you were in a relationship with were to become physically disabled, would you continue in the relationship with them?

General Questions

49. Throughout your life, what experiences do you feel contributed most to the person that you have become today?
50. Life is marked by a handful of experiences that change the direction we take. What would you say is one experience that changed the course of your life in general?
51. What is an example of one major decision that you have made, and how did you handle the situation?
52. We are all “diamonds in the rough”. In order for me to get past that stage, what would you say I need to focus on most?
53. Have you had an experience that you consider to be the most embarrassing? Why was it embarrassing?
54. What type of pet do you enjoy the most, and why do you like that particular type?
55. What is your opinion when it comes to marriage?

As you can see, there are many questions that you can ask your girlfriend that can help provide you with some type of perspective on who she is, how she thinks, what she values and what are her own values.

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58 Responses to “Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend”

  1. bk Says:

    love this,thanks

  2. my man Says:

    it makes my skin tingle thanks

  3. JT Says:

    I was looking for questions to ask my girlfriend and I found it. Thanks for the great experience.

  4. mike Says:

    Some of these make the male seem like she is really great and he wonders why he even got her… showing that he is of low value (just a loser who thinks women are some angels and he is not worthy)

    Just think about the question and what effect it will have on ur gf if u ask her the questions…. women think into this stuff WAY to much…. just be careful

  5. Unknown Says:

    the thing is im 14 and my gf is 14, so some of these questions might not start up a convo

  6. Joe Says:

    Wow.. Thanks haha..

  7. NUH CHUMMY Says:

    I LIKE IT.

  8. caleb Says:

    im only 13 but so is she it may not work that much cuz we jus ask questions


    Ahaha i am learning so much from this girl i like… This is great my feelings for her keep getting deeper.

  10. shamir Carrillo Says:

    ya dis questions are good hope dis meks it work better

  11. irvin Says:

    these questions are awsome i just wanna say i love my bby so much and shes the best 1-29-09

  12. Jay Says:

    Ok so I read the questions to ask a guy and then I read this and they don’t seem to match up. I mean the questions that are listed here are ok but if you read the questions that a girl may want to ask her guy, its not even close. Those questions are sure promote more questions. I mean it asks questions about ex girlfriends, intimate moments, what you did with some ex, who would you be dating if not your current girl…Seriously? So here you get lolly pop questions and on the guys side you get some questions that if the couple is not at a really comfortable level with each other, could do some damage to their relationship. Not sure if this is correct…and I am not saying this because I am a guy but because these questions should be balanced on both ends.

  13. amung Says:

    i luv this man its helped me a lot

  14. RAFI Says:


  15. Dhan Says:

    hi frnds its pakka… u guyz r doin great job, it helps many gals and boyz.

  16. Tevin Says:

    This question is very helpful and I even let her ask me the “Question To Ask Your Boyfriend”… -Thanks-

  17. daniel Says:

    more questions plzzzzzzzzzzz

  18. Dionis Says:

    No problem Tevin. Always glad to help.

  19. Briezie Says:

    this is cute. my guy & i are only 14. so some of these questions are a little.. for the future type thing. But they are great things to think about. :)

  20. awsome Says:

    aaawwwwsome i luv this thanks

  21. MIK3 Says:

    wow this made my girlfriend scared LOL rofl its a good convo starter!

  22. Danny Peterson II Says:

    Wow Guys Thanks I am on the phone right now asking these questions to my girlfriend … lol

  23. AHMED Says:


  24. karma Says:

    dope! helped me alot thanxx(:

  25. jamal Says:

    I like it can you send for me to my e-maill

  26. eric Says:

    money change’s a practical world,so she left me and loved my rich and famous friend and classmate….peace

  27. Onesmo Says:

    Ths questions are so impressive, i like it..

  28. j Says:

    i love these is an understatement

  29. victor chidi Says:

    i need to perform wisdon with my girlfriend she is more educated than me why am more wiser than she.

  30. Sateesh Says:

    The questions given above are really great, but according to me love is not a problem that would be solve by a particular formula.So i will suggest you guys pls follow ur heart while asking anything to ur gf and pls don’t blindly follow any kind of formula or tricks…..

  31. Chase Says:

    I jus wanted to say dat some of dese questions won’t work for me. I’m only 13 and so is my gf. Although we’ve gone out like 3 times. I feel if some of dese questions will help. Thanks if they do. Oh and my gf doesn’t want to kiss me for some reason. She that over the weekend she had the swine flu. But she seems fine at school. Hopefully these questions will help.

  32. brad Says:

    thank it works heeps

  33. simon yel Says:

    wawawawa these are very good and help questions I asked my girl friend with these questions to see how much does she love me and I prove her that she took me for granted .

  34. Nick Says:

    Im only 13 but I like it, in my opinion it helps

  35. Nick Says:

    Jjust some really good questions thanks

  36. Me Says:

    Great experience I learned a lot about this one girl I like it it’s great! I feel like I could tell her anything!! Thx guys

  37. Dionis Says:

    Always glad to help Chase!

  38. Dionis Says:

    Good point Sateesh. I agreee.

  39. philip Says:

    just recently gave my girlfriend eight red roses an valentines day card and she gave me one with the words if you will be mine so i said course i will be youurs forever!!!!!

  40. philip Says:

    me and my girlfriend recently exchanged valentines day cards i gave her one and she gave me one with the words willl you be mine? so i said coruse ill be yours forever?

  41. unknown Says:

    some of these questions are usefull :)

  42. Robert Says:

    These questions were really good thanx a lot guys keep it up

  43. Immagurl Says:

    Well these questions may help in some cases, but it really depends on the person. My boyfriend wouldnt ask these questions in a million years and I wouldnt answer them in a million years. I do love him with all of my heart but its just not helpful for us. We communicate… Differently…

  44. james67 Says:

    haha i just got into a fight with my gf becuase of these qeustions

  45. Nate Says:

    I like the first 9, we have been dating for a year and a half, had a couple of break ups inbetween but still together even though were only 15 and 16(me)

  46. sandeep Says:

    thanks alot…

  47. Okwy ezeugwu Says:

    Nice questions! I fired my girl with some of these questions and realised I almost missed my luck. One love guys.

  48. Okwy Ezeugwu Says:

    Nice questions! I asked my girl some of these questions and realised I almost missed my luck. One love guys.

  49. damn Says:

    This really sucks even after already getting to know my GF and we can talk and open up to eachother easily, I ask 2 of these and she can’t answer any. Also, WTF are questions that refeer to ex BF’s/ GF’s doing here?!

  50. Themythophe Says:

    Dat’s gr8.

  51. Tong88 Says:

    Indeed, it is very helpful with the questions and the information is extremely useful to talk to someone like your partner.

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  53. Pierre Says:

    i asked my girl these questions and she told me that she sleep with 4 guys and dose porn for a living what should i do

  54. Samuel Says:

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  55. Nick Says:

    Most questions are good but the question about taking $5 million to leave everyone and everything is flat out stupid

  56. Legendary kid Says:

    Im 13 and my girlfriend is 13 so most of these questions aren’t that big of help…..could some people make questions or the younger people?

  57. Philip Says:

    ME and my girlfriend are both recovering crackheads, i tried these questions on her, and she tried to drew me a fancy whale.. what does this mean? this is before the line of cocaine she does off my cock.

  58. pinky Says:

    these are great questions but im only 14 and my gf 14, someone needs to make some questions for younger people my age it will be more helpful

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