Questions To Ask A Date
So you are going to be with a date this weekend. What are you going to talk about while you are together? You have to have some fun conversation going on to have a good time.
You can’t just sit there and not say anything. Conversation is a form of communicating by trading bits of information with another person.
You can have deeply-serious conversations or light-hearted ones. Both of you could share your inner most secrets or just tell jokes.
This is all part of getting to know each other. If you don’t discuss your lives with each other, your relationship will not be very fulfilling.
But sometimes the conversation can come to a halt and you are stuck for something to talk about. If this happens it is good to know how to get the conversation going again.
An easy way to stimulate a conversation is through asking some questions. This way you can learn how your date’s mind works, his values, and likes or dislikes.
Keep the questions fun though. Do you need some help in know what these questions should be though?
Here you will find some questions that might be good to ask on your date.
Questions To Ask A Date:
1. If you invented a flavor of ice cream what would it be? What ingredients would be in it? This is just for laughs.
2. Would you describe yourself as beer, whiskey, or champagne if you were an alcoholic beverage? The answer to this question will show your date’s personality.
3. Do you have a spiritual nature? Do you mind discussing your beliefs? Be willing to accept whatever answer you get on this one without arguing.
4. Is your perfect day just curled up in front of the TV watching sports or a movie, or do you like to be active and would rather go hiking, participate in sports, and other activities like that? If you like sports which ones do you like to watch or play?
5. Are you addicted to your computer or is it just for work? If you are addicted what do you do with it?
6. Do you have an easy time letting people into your life, or are you a person that is hard to get to know? Do you fear people will find out too much about you?
7. Do you love to be outdoors or do the bugs creep you out? Do you like to camp, fish, and other outdoor activities? You can find out if you have these things in common by asking this question.
8. Would you like to be wealthy one day and be able to travel anywhere in the world? If yes, where would you like to visit?
9. Do you like to go mountain biking? If so where to you go to enjoy doing it?
10. When you go out to eat do you eat seafood, Italian food, Asian cuisine, or are you a cheapskate and just do fast food? Which restaurants do you go to a lot and why? This will let you know if your taste in foods are close.
11. What do you think about visiting art museums or book readings for a date? If you like these things this will be important for you to share with a date.
12. Do you believe in premarital sex or are you for abstinence? If for abstinence, is this because of personal preferences or religious beliefs?
13. Have you ever had to face a severe tragedy in your life? How did you get through it?
14. What is the most valuable lesson you have ever learned in your life? This one tells a lot of a person’s character.
15. What is your idea of the perfect vacation? Where would you like to go on one that you have not been to? You may agree on this one, you may not.
16. Do you like science fiction or do you have a hard time with the concept of it? Tells about the imagination.
17. Do you know your family’s history and heritage, or are you just here and know nothing about where you came from? It is fun to know about such things.
These are only some of the things that can be discussed with a date. As you get more serious your questions will get more serious too. You will dig deeper and deeper into each other’s lives.
Feel free to download your copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook to get a lot of questions that you can ask. You can also get 1000 Questions For Couples by Micheal Webb.
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