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So you have met a girl that you are just crazy about! You even want her to be your girlfriend. You think she has feelings for you too.

The only problem is that you are having trouble trying to figure out how to ask her.

You don’t want it to sound like a marriage proposal because you are not ready for the serious of a step yet, but you would like her to date just you.

So carefully choose your words when asking, you don’t want to give her the wrong idea.

Read on to discover some suggestions for asking this girl to be your girlfriend…

How To Ask A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend:

1. This first way is not the most romantic but it is the most direct approach. You can simply plan on having a serious conversation with this girl which you have become attracted to. Talk to her about your feelings and explain that you would like to “go steady with her” or “court her”, and ask her to date only you. Also tell her that you will date only her.

Of course it would not hurt to have a gift or flowers to set the mood of the conversation. This does not necessarily call for a ring like a proposal does so you can give her a bracelet, candy, or flowers. Hopefully she will say yes and then you can spend the rest of the time just enjoying being together.

2. Plan an activity that includes your favorite place to go. Maybe you like going picnicking in a local park, plan to go there. This place though should have special meaning for you though. Someplace that you have fond memories of. Then you can have a note wrapped into one of the sandwiches, maybe laying on top where it is easy to find. In the note you can tell this girl how you are starting to feel about her.

Explain also that you hope she feels the same way about you. Talk about how you would like to have an exclusive relationship with her to get to know her better. Remember though that you are not proposing marriage at this time. You need to make her understand that too.

3. You can do a grander date and take her out to supper at a nice romantic high-end restaurant. Have a speech all planned about you wanting her to be your girlfriend and why. Make sure to profess your feelings for her too. A girl needs to know how a guy feels about them before accepting their idea of being exclusive.

Make sure you order the whole meal that night including a fancy dessert. You may choose to ask her to be your girlfriend at dessert. This way if she says no you won’t have to spend an awkward evening together. But if you have read her feelings right she probably won’t say no.

4. You could send flowers to her work or home and have the note ask “Will you be my girlfriend?”. Stay away from asking “Will you be my one and only?” this could sound too much like you are proposing.

5. Go to a baseball or football game and have them put on the billboard that you want to date her and only her. This is really a grand gesture that will attract a lot of attention. Make sure the girl is not too shy for this before you do it. You don’t want the whole plan to backfire on you.

6. Have a t-shirt made with the question, “Can I court you?” or something like that on it and wear it in front of her. This is definitely an unique way of asking!

7. Go out and listen to a band at a local club. See if the band will ask the question for you. This will make the night so much fun. When she says yes, you can dance the night away!

These are just a few ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. The secret to success with this is to make fairly certain that this girl has deep enough feelings for you.

Definitely don’t rush into doing this, but you don’t want to drag your feet with it either. You don’t want another guy beating you to it!

Feel free to download your copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook to get a lot of questions that you can ask. You can also get 1000 Questions For Couples by Micheal Webb.

When you have a girlfriend you want to make her happy. Many times all you have to do is say nice things to her to make her feel this way.

The problem is that if you are new at having a girlfriend you may not know just what to say.

You open your mouth and become so tongue tied you can’t talk!

Little positive statements can mean a lot to your girlfriend. Here are some suggestions of some really  romantic and “nice things to say to your girlfriend”…

Nice Things To  Say To Your Girlfriend:

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1. I love the way your hair shines in the sun.
2. You are the glow in the sunrise of my day.
3. The sound of your voice is like a soft melody in my ears.
4. Your smile makes my heart skip beats.
5. The first thing of I think about in the morning is you and at night you are the last thought in my head.
6. My world is not complete when I am not near you.
7. I am a better person with you in my life, you make me strive for more.
8. If my love for you could be measured in feet it would reach far out into the universe.
9. I think about your lovely being every moment I breathe!
10. Your taste in clothes is so delicious it makes me hungry.

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11. Roses are said to be red, the sky sure does look blue, and I most definitely love you.
12. Your singing should be on the radio for all people to enjoy.
13. I love the way you come sashaying into the room. The swaying of your hips delight me.
14. The aroma of your cologne is like it is sent from heaven.
15. You’re as sweet as those cookies you bake!
16. The shape of your lips just makes me want to pucker up and kiss you.
17. I admire the intelligent way you work through your problems.
18. You have such a love of life that you brighten up any room you are in!
19. All you curves are in just the right places.
20. If your voice was music it would be a symphony of light lilting tones.

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21. I marvel at the fact that you love to fish, and will actually bait your own hook, and take the fish off yourself!
22. You are the marshmallows in my hot chocolate.
23. You eyes sparkle like precious gems.
24. Some girls make guys‘ hearts go all a flutter, you make my heart go completely out of control!
25. Your style of clothes is so hip and artistic, it is very upscale and modern!
26. Thank you for just being you and all that you do in this world.
27. I love you so much my heart hurts.
28. You make your nice clothes look even better.
29. You would look nice no matter what clothes you wore.
30. The head of hair you have is so fun to run my fingers through, it is so soft and luxurious!

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31. You are so pretty that you don’t need any makeup.
32. Everything is more fun with and just think you love football too.
33. You are Cinderella to my Prince Charming.
34. You shine so bright that you make the sun go behind the clouds to hide.
35. I love you more than beer pong.
36. You sure look good in those jeans, they shape you just right.
37. You wear the coolest shoes, where do you find them?
38. You are my little honey bun, sweetie, and oh let’s throw in lovey dove.
39. You decorate the whole world not just my corner of it.
40. You are the whip cream on my sundae.

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41. I have never known someone as fascinating as you are.
42. I love you more than all my video games put together.
43. I thank God that he lets me love you, and that you love me back.
44. I will love you until the sun dies and the moon crumbles.
45. When we are apart I don’t feel like I am whole.
46. Words fail me when I try to explain my feelings for you. There are no words good enough.

You will probably come up with your own list of nice things to say to your girlfriend, but if you don’t the above list can help. Just remember that girls like nice things said to them, especially when they are heartfelt.

Girls usually know when you guys are not being sincere. So reach into your heart and use your brains when talking to your girlfriend and you will be just fine.

Feel free to download your copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook to get a lot of questions that you can ask your girlfriend. You can also get 1000 Questions For Couples by Micheal Webb.

If you are a guy, chances are you are trying to talk to a girl.

Do you often wonder what to talk about? Do you wonder what questions you can ask?

Well, there are many subjects that you can talk about with girls today.Many different questions can be asked to get to know them better.

Even if you are just friends with them, there is always something you can get to know about them.

On this page there are some suggestions of funny, awkward, random, interesting and good questions to ask a girl.

Of course, you will probably come with many questions on your own.

But feel free to use the ones listed here.

Note: This post was inspired by one of our previous post: Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Questions to ask a girl:

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1. What genre of music are you interested in listening to and why do you like this genre?

2. What characteristics do you look for in people as far as choosing your friends?

3. What values do you think are important for all people to have?

4. Do you think that in this world today, a relationship between man and woman can be happy and well adjusted?

5. What do you consider to be undesirable traits for guys to have?

6. What do you consider to be inappropriate characteristics for a girl to have?

7. If you were stranded on a deserted island, what 3 things would you hope to have with you?

8. What is your idea of an ideal career for you to have?

9. If you were to win a trip somewhere, where would you want it to be and why?

10. Do you feel that the overuse of hairdryers in the world is a contributing factor to global warming?

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11. Out of all of life, what is tops on your list for being important factors?

12. What is being happy all about in your mind?

13. If your life was a flavor, would it be more sweet, salty, or sour in taste?

14. What do you think your 5 strongest characteristics are?

15. What do you feel that your 5 weakest characteristics are?

16. Looking back over your life do you feel there are events you would do differently if you were given a chance?

17. What three words would you use to describe who you are as a person?

18. Do you get along well with your parents?

19. Have you ever had a hard time getting along with your family?

20. Where do you see the trends in fashion going in 10 years, for guys and girls?

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21. If you were to paint a picture of the world what colors would you use? Why?

22. Do you like hanging around with your family or friends, or do you like your alone time more?

23. When you go out and about with your friends, where do you like to go the most?

24. What places are your favorite family-type places to go?

25. If you were a food what would you be?

26. Do you have someone that you consider to be a best friend, and what is there about this person that makes them your best friend?

27. Do you feel that your future is going to be filled with adventures, or do you view it as boring?

28. Do you feel that you have a high degree of personal honesty?

29. When you make a serious decision about a life situation do you think with your head or your heart?

30. Which has a higher value in your mind, relationships with people or monetary gain?

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31. What type of books do you enjoy reading and why do you enjoy them?

32. What characteristics do you find makes a person heroic in your eyes?

33. Do you see marriage in your future with someone?

34. Do you imagine yourself a mother with a houseful of kids one day?

35. Do dream of living in a large house and having a fancy car to drive?

36. What is the one thing that you desire above all else for yourself?

37. Are you the type of person who trust everyone? Or do you have trouble trusting everyone?

38. Are you a person that has a positive attitude about life? Or are you negative most of the time?

39. Looking back on the events of your life, what one event helped shape you into the person you are today?

40. Do you have a charitable spirit?

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41. Have you had anything in your life that has changed where and how you conduct yourself?

42. Are you an animal lover, if so which animal would you love to have for a pet and why?

43. Are you for or against marriage, or do you have an opinion on the subject?

44. Would you take one million dollars to leave your present life behind, including all your friends and family, to start a life where you know no one?

45. Have you had a most embarrassing moment in your life? If so do you feel like sharing it with me?

46. How can I improve my personality so that I am liked by more people?

47. If you had a relationship with someone and they came partially incapacitated either physically or mentally would you continue to be by their side?

48. Financially speaking, what are your goals for the present and the future?

49. Are you a person that gets along with anyone you meet? Or are you very picky about who you get along with?

50. Do you like answering questions that people ask you about yourself? Or do you wish they wouldn’t ask you so many questions?

Conclusion

As you can see there are numerous questions to ask a girl. These questions allow you to get to know her better. You don’t have to be romantically involved with a girl to want to get to know her because guys can be just friends with girls.

I am sure you will come up with many of your own questions as well. You need to be careful that if you do not know the girl well, to keep the questions more general and less personal. You do not want to offend her and frighten her away.

The more you get to be friends with her, the more personal the questions can be. So ask a girl some questions today!

These questions are only a few of many other good questions to ask a girl. By downloading your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook or the famous 1000 Questions For Couples by Michael Webb, you have a lot of more serious questioning to do.