100 Questions Before Marriage Blog

When you meet a guy there are things you want to know about him. Some things can be discovered just by normal conversation or spending time together. But some topics just don’t pop up in conversation.

These topics have to be brought up. This is especially true if it is a topic that delves deeper into his personality. Many wonder about the best way to bring up new topics in a conversation.

The answer to that is easy; bring up questions on those topics. Questions can be about any subject you can think up plus more. Interesting conversations can be sparked from just one question.

Ask a searching question like what the guy thinks of the unemployment rate or maybe what his future plans are for his life and you can get him talking. See how simple it is to get the conversation going?

If you are struggling with knowing what can be asked then check out the questions in this article. You are free to use them in your conversations until you make some of your own. Below are many examples of the kind of questions you can ask that guy you want to get to know.

Good Questions to Ask a Guy:

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1.  What color shirts do you like to wear the most? Also do you like patterned shirts or plain shirts the best?
2. Do you like to watch the Summer or Winter Olympics when they are held?
3. Are there any sports you are hooked on?
4. Are you grumpy when you first wake up in the morning?
5. Are you satisfied with the position you hold in the company you work for?
6. Are you capable of violence against another living being for any reason other than self defense?
7. Do you have an easy-going personality?
8. Do you enjoy answering annoying questions people ask you?
9. Is there someone you look up to as a role model? If so who?
10. Are you the type of person who does charitable type work?

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11. Is there anyone from your past who you would like to see and reconnect with?
12. If you only had a short time to live what are the two things you would want to do?
13. In what year did you have your first real kiss?
14. What age did you start dating? Who was your first date?
15. Do you like to go to art museums, the opera, or the ballet?
16. Would you enjoy going to a play?
17. Are you a person that would much rather stay at home and entertain yourself than to go out somewhere?
18. What is your all-time favorite cartoon character from your childhood?
19. Do you like watching TV or would you rather go do something?
20. Do you date more than one gal at a time?

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21. Do you believe in the idea of marriage or do you want to stay single?
22. Is there a list of things that you don’t like people doing around you? If so what would be on that list?
23. Is there one thing in this world that you want above all other things?
24. Have you ever spent time in jail?
25. Do you get drunk and act badly on a regularly basis, or are you a happy drunk?
26. Are you an observer of any religious views?
27. Do you think that ghosts really exist?
28. Is there life somewhere in the universe other than earth?
29. Is man responsible for Global Warming or would it have happened regardless of what man did?
30. Why do you think the sky is blue?

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31. Could you be just a roommate to 4 women?
32. Do you like blonds, brunettes, or redheads better?
33. Do you indulge in any illegal activities?
34. Is your IQ high, medium, or low?

You can see by these questions how many topics can be covered. So many things can be discovered about this guy you want to get to know better. The answers to these questions would allow you to know just how serious you want the relationship to be too.

There is one thing you need to remember about asking questions though. Make it a game or light-hearted conversation. If you make it too serious in tone when asking the questions you will make the guy feel like he is on the hot seat and he would certainly get upset.

Once you know a guy for awhile you may want to delve further into his personality. This may take actually questioning the guy. It is hard to have a meaningful conversation without one person questioning the other in some way. But what questions do you ask a guy?

Questioning him should be a bit different then asking your gal friends questions. You girls probably talk about makeup, fashion, work, dreams for the future, and maybe events you see on the news. As you know most guys are not interested in the makeup and fashion end of things. The questions need to be of a more masculine nature.

They would rather talk about sports, work, and possibly news events. Guys do like to talk about their future plans too. They love to talk about their career plans usually. So you have to gear the questions to what guys like to talk about. If you don’t they are not going to want to answer the questions.

It is fun sometimes just to play a 20 question-type game aimed at getting the answers you want. Let the him come up with 20 questions he gets to ask you along with the 20 you are going to ask him. Take turns asking each other these various curiosities about one another. This way both of you can enjoy this exchange of information.

This can lead to a very meaningful moment in your relationship. It really can deepen the extent of how you feel about each other. So do not be afraid to ask.

Now make sure your questions are designed to get the answers you want. Be very specific on what you need to have an answer for. If you are having a hard time thinking of the questions to ask this article can help you. Below are 20 questions you can ask…

20 Questions to Ask a Guy:

1. Would you still love me if all my skin got burned and scarred badly?

2. Are you highly motivated to become wealthy during your lifetime?

3. Do you become almost addicted to anything you like a lot? This could be a hobby, food, video games, or even watching sports on TV.

4. Do you have a vision for where your career will take you in the near future?

5. Are you a person that is mechanically inclined or do you hate that type of task?

6. If you were stranded on a high mountain top, what type of things would you want with you?

7. Do you like warm or cold weather?

8. How do you like your coffee that is if you drink it?

9. Was your father bald headed?

10. What level of education do you have? Would you like to have more?

11. Do you know how to work on your car or do you always need a mechanic?

12. Are you handy fixing things around the house?

13. What flavor of ice cream is your favorite?

14. What type of underwear do you wear?

15. What brand of jeans do you like the best?

16. Which shoes are the most comfortable for you to wear?

17. What type of car do you like to drive in?

18. Have you ever gone hunting? If so do you like and still do it?

19. Do you enjoy camping, fishing, or hiking?

20. Do you like playing card games, especially poker? Also are you a chess player?

As you can see, by these questions the range of information that can be found out is mighty. Like and dislikes can be explored. There might be certain things you want to explore in depth, like religion and sexual views if you relationship has progressed that far. You could also be a workout fanatic looking for a partner, so your questions might be more in that vein.

If you are a sports fanatic you might want to know what team the guy roots for. You may also want to know if he minds doing mundane things with you like shopping. So write your questions carefully.

Whatever type of information you want to find out, questions are the tools to use to learn it. This goes with guys and in all your life. Never be afraid to ask the questions. The only wrong question is the one that is left unasked.

When you are getting to know a new guy or dating your boyfriend, it is nice to get to know him better. The only way to do this at times is to ask him questions.

Sometimes these questions can be silly,  awkward,  or even embarrassing. While other times they can result to be hard, serious, personal or intimate questions to ask a guy.

You can have fun scattering them throughout the moments when you are with your boyfriend. You don’t need to ask them all at one time.

This would be like a grilling session if you did it. Just gradually ask the questions over time. Below are a group random and different “questions to ask a guy” to help you get started.

Good Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: 21 Questions To Ask A Guy

1. Are you busy later this week?

2. Did you like me right off the bat, or did it take time for me to grow on you?

3. Do you remember your first and who gave it to you?

4. What do you like to do for fun and relaxation?

5. If you could choose anywhere in the universe to spend one day where would it be?

6. What personality do you look for in your friends?

Random Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: Random Questions To Ask A Guy

1. What types of desserts do you enjoy eating?

2. Are you a vegetarian or do you eat meat?

3. Do you love to go to the gym or do you do it just because it is good for you?

4. Do you like to bowl?

5. Are you an outdoorsy person or do you like to be inside doing activities instead?

6. Are you computer savvy?

7. Are you an only child or do you have brothers and/or sisters?

8. Where did you get your education, or are you still in school?

9. What type of employment do you currently have?

10. Which new car model do you like?

11. Have you ever been hunting or fishing?

12. Do you love to compete with your friends on your video game system?

13. How do you like your eggs cooked?

14. Do you smoke?

15. Do you drink alcoholic beverages at all?

Interesting Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1. Do you have special spiritual beliefs?

2. What 3 books would you take with you if you were going to travel to the future?

3. If time travel was possible, which year would you like to visit?

4. How do you see the future for you?

5. What aspirations do you have for your career?

6. What kind of financial future do you desire for yourself?

7. Have you ever been fingerprinted?

8. Have you ever had a dirty lie-detector test?

9. What is your job all about if you have one?

10. What state would you like to live in if you had a choice?

11. How did you spend your last perfect day?

12. Do you look forward to everyday or do you dread each new day?

13. Have you ever been deep-sea fishing?

14. Where do you want to be in 30 years?

15. What is your favorite educational program on TV?

16. What would you like to change about yourself?

17. What would you like me to change about me?

18. How many times a week do you like to go out?

19. If you won the jackpot on a lottery what is the first thing you would do with it?

20. Do you believe in doing charity work?

21. Have you ever been sailing?

22. Do you enjoy going to book readings or lectures?

23. Have you ever been to the opera? If not would you ever go?

24. If I loved going to plays would you take me even if you don’t enjoy them?

25. How long has it been since you went to the doctor?

26. Has any event in your life just blown you away? If so what was it?

Nice Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see the original post: Embarrassing Questions To Ask A Guy

1. What sports teams do you like watch for football (or whichever sport he likes)? How much to you watch them?

2. Have you always been this smart or did you have to work to get this way?

3. With those muscles do you workout?

4. Does your hair always look that way?

5. Where do you get the stylish clothes you wear?

6. Love that laptop you picked out for yourself, where did you buy it?

Personal Questions to Ask your Boyfriend

Also see my original post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1. Do you have any enemies or people that have a problem with you? How do you try to handle them.

2. Do you use an electric razor to shave or do you still use shaving cream and manual razor.

3. Do you wear briefs or are you that boxer-type of guy?

4. What kind of deodorant do you use?

5. Are you loyal to one girl or do you always play the naughty field?

6. What made you fall for me in the beginning of our relationship?

7. Do I send off signals when I am “in the mood”?

8. Are you an honest person or do you tell lies when you have to?

9. What religious beliefs do you hold?

10. Are you a good dancer or do you stink on the dance floor?

11. Do you understand the need to do foreplay on women?

12. On a scale of 1 to 10 how do you rate my looks?

13. On a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rate your looks?

14. Do you have dreams about me? If so, are they x-rated ones?

15. Are there times when you like total privacy? If so when?

You can see how much fun and informative asking questions could be from this list. Just think of all the other funny and good questions to ask a guy you could come up with too. Remember though not to ask all these questions at one time. They are more fun when they slowly and naturally seep into a conversation.