100 Questions Before Marriage Blog

The following are a collected group of questions from previous post made on this blog about different topics that range from intimate, personal, cute, funny, silly, weird, sexual and hard questions that you can ask your boyfriend.

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Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend:

Taken from post: 100 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1.    Who are your ex girlfriends, (if any) and what made the relationship end as it did?
2.    What have you learned from life that makes you who you are today?
3.    What are your plans (goals) for the future?

Taken from post: 21 Questions To Ask A Guy

4.    If I had an accident and be left with terrible scars for life, would you still love me?
5.    What is it of me that you like the most?
6.    How do you remember your “first love”?
7.    After me, who is your closest female friend? (excluding your mother, and other family members)
8.    How do you remember my first impression?
9.    Would you leave me for a celebrity that really really liked you?
10.    Are you a virgin?
11.    Do you still have feelings for an ex?
12.    What is your best kept intimate secret?
13.    How do you visualize the perfect woman? What are her attributes?
14.    Who was your first girlfriend?
15.    How would you react if I was dating another guy?
16.    At what age do you plan to get married?
17.    What is it that you don’t like about me?
18.    What would be your best reason to break up with me?
19.    How would you react if the doctor told me that I have a deadly disease? Would you still love me?
20.    If I had to move far away for many years, would you wait for me?
21.    If we had a child born with health problems, how would you handle the situation?
22.    What are your financial goals for the future?
23.    How and when would you know if I am the right one?
24.    Do you believe in God? Why?

Taken from post: Fun Questions To Get to Know Someone

25.    Have you ever had the feeling you were being watched?
26.    So, do you really think we evolved from apes? Seriously?
27.    What would you do if you were the last person on this earth?

Taken from post: Intimate Questions To Ask Your Partner

28.    What has been your most intimate experience?
29.    Who has been your most intimate partner?
30.    Do you still have feelings for an ex intimate partner?
31.    How long did your most intimate relationship last?
32.    Do you regret living those intimate experiences with that person?
33.    What made you go that far?
34.    Are you a virgin?
35.    Do you rather follow your heart (that does not think) or your head (that does think)?
36.    What do you think is better: premarital sex or premarital abstinence?
37.    Do you think the past matters in a relationship?
38.    How would you react if I had a more serious intimate relationship in the past?
39.    Do you think it’s OK for me to still have feelings for an ex?
40.    What is your definition of intimate?
41.    Do you agree with: were there was fire, ashes remain?

Taken from post: Random Questions To Ask A Guy

42.    What are your future financial plans?
43.    What is your mayor goal in life?
44.    What is your favorite book?
45.    How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
46.    What are your mayor flaws?
47.    Who is your hero?
48.    What do you consider most important in life?
49.    What would be your questions to ask on a first date?
50.    Do have any type of bad habit?
51.    What is your point of view of the world?
52.    What are your priorities on a first date?
53.    How would you describe the perfect life?
54.    What country would you choose for a honeymoon?Why?
55.    What has been your most embarrassing moment?
56.    What do you do when you are bored?
57.    How do you spend time with your family?
58.    Do you have any enemies? Why?
59.    What has been the most important decisions in your life?
60.    What experiences have marked you the most?
61.    If you could change the past, what would you change?
62.    How do you visualize your future?

The above questionnaire is an example of the type of get to know you questions that can help strengthen a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. They are also good premarital questions that can be taken into account before marriage.

Some can be considered questions to ask on a first date or questions to ask a potential boyfriend, but they can vary depending on each person, situation and the relationship it self.

But the best use of these questions is to get to know someone better. To help uncover the real and mysterious individual that hides behind the social mask. To see who will be the real person if that boyfriend turns into a husband and a life long spouse.

Within courtship, we only know up to a certain extent about our partner. Within marriage, things change. Both partners will have to learn how to cope with each other with all of their past, present and future for as long as they live.

This would include: family members, friends, neighbors, pets, ex relationships and personal and intimate experiences. The above deep questions for couples help unfold all of this. They are not to be considered a quiz or a survey, but rather simple questioning for better understanding.

As for the answer to these questions, they will depend on his reaction because  they are personal. As mentioned on a previous post, they have to do a lot with the truth, and sometimes, the truth hurts.

For more interesting, romantic and  fun questions to ask your boyfriend, get your copy of  the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook, or Michael Webb’s eBook 1000 Questions For Couples today!

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Sometimes, (depending on the situation) having and ex boyfriend/girlfriend could be a problem because the relationship ends, but the memories remain.

Even if we want to forget about it, those memories come back involuntary. They are unpredictable enough to appear years after the relationship is over in a time when we have a different partner and believe that we have completely “forgotten” about the other.

People have even confessed about dreams (and nightmares) with their ex boyfriend/girlfriend after being with their husband/wife. These memories become a type of ghost that follows them throughout their days.

Many will wonder why, but that is the way human psychology is designed. All of our experiences from the past are recorded in our mind consciously or subconsciously.

But when we speak about relationships, we are not talking about any type of experience. We are talking about emotional experiences that have affected us deep.

And speaking of deep, there is no other experience in life that can possible leave a more deeper, profound and life changing effect in a human being than having an intimate relationship with someone we love.

But even more powerful is an experience that goes beyond the limits: sex.

Premarital sex is considered by many something completely normal, however, the effects that it is capable of producing are so drastic, that not even a divorce can be compared to it.

For example:

Imagine the case of two teenagers, a boy and girl who become neighbors. They get to know each other and with time, they form a intimate relationship. Months go by and they start spending night’s alone at her house were things become more and more physical as many other nights go by.

Soon, they get to the point were their intimacy reaches it’s highest level and sleep together one night while their parents are away.

A couple of months later, school starts and the girl meets another guy. They become such good friends that he starts visiting her house.

The other boy does not know about this new friend until he sees them kissing one day from his next door window.

He breaks up with her and the girl stays with her new boyfriend. Now the visits at night are done by him.

As the boy watches these visits night after night from across the street, he imagines every little detail he experienced with her, but being done with her new boyfriend.

He also realizes that when her parents leave, the new boyfriend comes over to sleep with her just like he did.

The boy suffers from extreme emotional pain, and is taken to a psychologist because he is unable to study, eat, nor sleep.

Years later, he can still remember the emotional impact that this experience has made in him and his life…

This is a fact: A sexual experience has the potential to leave life long marks on anyone.

Much of the above is what you are not told in blogs, books, novels, movies, TV, radio, the Internet, and Hollywood were everybody lives “happily ever after” in the end.

Nor do they ask themselves the following questions:

Why is it that nobody speaks about the psychological effects that premarital sex can have?
Can’t people see that it has to do with our personal feelings, emotions and integrity?
Why is it that the topic of sex is always something to laugh about?

All this can be answered with another question:

Why do people follow their heart (which does not think) instead of their head (which does think)?

Unfortunately, we do see a lot of the following:

“I hate my ex boyfriend/girlfriend”
“Revenge for cheating ex boyfriends/girlfriends”
“Signs your ex still loves you”
“Getting even with an ex”
“Letters to ex boyfriends/girlfriends”
“Making your ex jealous”

All this and no explanation of how they got in that situation in the first place.

The reason premarital sex is risky is because it takes relationships to its highest level, but not to its highest commitment.

In a romantic relationship, there is no bigger deception than an infidelity and in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, this can happen at any time.

Now how will the boy, in the example above, explain his experience to his wife? Will she accept his reality?

Sexual fidelity is suppose to start before marriage, and stay within marriage. If it is broken in either cases, it can have long or short term consequences sooner or later.

In conclusion, “Relationships are similar to a crystal glass. If it falls with hard impact, it will be broken into a thousand pieces…” (100QBM eBook) and the effects are for life.

“The higher a relationship went, the harder the fall, the bigger the ‘emotional baggage’, the longer it will take to overcome it, and yes indeed this will be a topic that you might touch with your permanent partner at some point of the rest of your life.” (100QBM eBook)

To keep it simple, courtship, relationships and sex are delicate. We must be responsible with them from the very beginning so we don’t have a delusional end.

Note: This post was not meant to make anybody feel guilty of their own experience or past, but to help them open their eyes to avoid similar problems in the present and future. To help them realize a reality that others don’t. To help them become a different, unique and better person.

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People can be so mysterious and at the same time so clear.

The enigmatic part of a person is only the big knowledge gap of the little that we know about them. But the reality is that they are normal human beings just like us and everyone else.

They have feelings, a family, personal issues, economic problems (even if they are rich or poor), passions, desires, goals, flaws, virtues, sorrows, ego, etc.

Little understanding about anything forms the universal result of ignorance.

Ignorance has its own consequences in any type of situation or relationship that can range from lost opportunities, slow progress, misunderstanding and constant conflict.

To full fill the knowledge gap of ignorance it is necessary to have the facts about whatever it is that we are ignorant about and this would include a person.

The facts can come from many different sources and one of these sources are questions.

Here are a few of random “get to know you questions” that can apply to anyone but they are more targeted to men since women would tend to have a more emotional set of questions.

Random questions to ask a guy:

What are your future financial plans?
What is your mayor goal in life?
What is your favorite book?
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
What are your mayor flaws?
Who is your hero?
What do you consider most important in life?
What would be your questions to ask on a first date?
Do have any type of bad habit?
What is your point of view of the world?
What are your priorities on a first date?
How would you describe the perfect life?
What country would you choose for a honeymoon?Why?
What has been your most embarrassing moment?
What do you do when you are bored?
How do you spend time with your family?
Do you have any enemies? Why?
What has been the most important decisions in your life?
What experiences have marked you the most?
If you could change the past, what would you change?
How do you visualize your future?

A few of these random questions can be considered hard to answer if the person has not paid attention to that specific idea in the past.

These questions can be directed to a guy since they are more focused on goals that a future husband will have to accomplish. The above random questions would be the type of appropriate questioning that should be asked in a relationship.

Feel free to download your free copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook for more “random questions to ask a guy”. You can also download Michael Webb’s 1000 Questions For Couples.

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