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A long distance love relationship can presents certain challenges. If you and your partner are willing to have patience and determination you can overcome these challenges. It takes more work to make one of these relationships work.

For one there has to be a higher level of trust earlier than in regular ones. You will drive yourself berserk if you don’t have this trust between you.

Paranoia will set in and you will not be able to get through a day without thinking your partner is cheating on you. When this happens you might as well kiss the relationship goodbye.

Some things you want to DO to make the long distance relationship work are:

• Keep your independence. Don’t just sit at home waiting for your partner to call. Live your life and you will have more to talk about when you are conversing with them.
• Communicate with each other as much as you possibly can. Through the use of computers and cell phones this is not a hard task today.
• Plan trips to get together with each other and catch up on what the other one has been doing. Maybe you can come up with a very special location that you will both enjoy. Something like going snow skiing.
• Go back to hand writing letters to each other. These are rare today with the use of email. In years to come these letters will become such special keepsakes.
• Make certain that you both agree about what would happen in the future if marriage happens. Who would be the one to move and change jobs? This is an important point to be in agreement with.

The list above of the things to DO will make the relationship work better. There are the things that will break a relationship though.

Below are some of the things NOT to do long distance relationship…

• Don’t become possessive or clingy with your partner. With so much distance between you this only adds unwarranted pressure to the relationship.
• Don’t pester your partner when you know that they could be working. At these times it is best to use email and then they can answer you at their convenience. Overly calling could be conceived as clingy as we mentioned above.
• Don’t accuse them of dating someone else when there is no proof just your paranoia. With men this will make them want to run and run fast. You will lose them. Women won’t like it either, believe me.
• Don’t play hard to get or any other games that you may do if the other one was close by. These games are not wise under any circumstance but had much worse affects on a long distance relationship.
• Try not to be down when the other one calls you. Stay in an uplifting mood. Remember they might be having a hard day with their problems or the fact that they are away from you.

So work together to stay positive with each other and your relationship will get stronger.  Remember that this could turn into a lifelong relationship. Share your lives the best you can and love will find a way through and over the distance that separates you.

When you have a girlfriend you want to make her happy. Many times all you have to do is say nice things to her to make her feel this way.

The problem is that if you are new at having a girlfriend you may not know just what to say. You open your mouth and become so tongue tied you can’t talk!

Little positive statements can mean a lot to your girlfriend. Here are some suggestions of some really  romantic and “nice things to say to your girlfriend”…

Nice Things To  Say To Your Girlfriend:

1-10

1. I love the way your hair shines in the sun.
2. You are the glow in the sunrise of my day.
3. The sound of your voice is like a soft melody in my ears.
4. Your smile makes my heart skip beats.
5. The first thing of I think about in the morning is you and at night you are the last thought in my head.
6. My world is not complete when I am not near you.
7. I am a better person with you in my life, you make me strive for more.
8. If my love for you could be measured in feet it would reach far out into the universe.
9. I think about your lovely being every moment I breathe!
10. Your taste in clothes is so delicious it makes me hungry.

11-20

11. Roses are said to be red, the sky sure does look blue, and I most definitely love you.
12. Your singing should be on the radio for all people to enjoy.
13. I love the way you come sashaying into the room. The swaying of your hips delight me.
14. The aroma of your cologne is like it is sent from heaven.
15. You’re as sweet as those cookies you bake!
16. The shape of your lips just makes me want to pucker up and kiss you.
17. I admire the intelligent way you work through your problems.
18. You have such a love of life that you brighten up any room you are in!
19. All you curves are in just the right places.
20. If your voice was music it would be a symphony of light lilting tones.

21-30

21. I marvel at the fact that you love to fish, and will actually bait your own hook, and take the fish off yourself!
22. You are the marshmallows in my hot chocolate.
23. You eyes sparkle like precious gems.
24. Some girls make guys’ hearts go all a flutter, you make my heart go completely out of control!
25. Your style of clothes is so hip and artistic, it is very upscale and modern!
26. Thank you for just being you and all that you do in this world.
27. I love you so much my heart hurts.
28. You make your nice clothes look even better.
29. You would look nice no matter what clothes you wore.
30. The head of hair you have is so fun to run my fingers through, it is so soft and luxurious!

31-40

31. You are so pretty that you don’t need any makeup.
32. Everything is more fun with and just think you love football too.
33. You are Cinderella to my Prince Charming.
34. You shine so bright that you make the sun go behind the clouds to hide.
35. I love you more than beer pong.
36. You sure look good in those jeans, they shape you just right.
37. You wear the coolest shoes, where do you find them?
38. You are my little honey bun, sweetie, and oh let’s throw in lovey dove.
39. You decorate the whole world not just my corner of it.
40. You are the whip cream on my sundae.

41-46

41. I have never known someone as fascinating as you are.
42. I love you more than all my video games put together.
43. I thank God that he lets me love you, and that you love me back.
44. I will love you until the sun dies and the moon crumbles.
45. When we are apart I don’t feel like I am whole.
46. Words fail me when I try to explain my feelings for you. There are no words good enough.

You will probably come up with your own list of nice things to say to your girlfriend, but if you don’t the above list can help. Just remember that girls like nice things said to them, especially when they are heartfelt.

Girls usually know when you guys are not being sincere. So reach into your heart and use your brains when talking to your girlfriend and you will be just fine.

Feel free to download your copy of the 100 Questions Before Marriage sample eBook to get a lot of questions that you can ask your girlfriend. You can also get 1000 Questions For Couples by Micheal Webb.

So now that you have a boyfriend, you are searching for ideas for valentines day for him. Are you wondering what you and your boyfriend can have fun doing together that you can plan?

You are probably looking through the magazines at different ideas to see if they would be good choices.

Are you trying to find something that will “WOW” him. This can be difficult at times. You may have to even ask him a few leading questions to get some ideas. You definitely want to plan something that he will love! Below are some valentine’s day ideas that may help you though.

Cute valentines ideas for a boyfriend:

Camping

If he is the outdoors type, plan a camping trip. Go to either a favorite lake or the mountains. You can make the reservations and even get the gear together to go. Have your car all packed to go when he comes over. Tell him that you taking him on an adventure.

Sporting Events

Get tickets to his favorite team’s game. He will love going to the game with you. And have all the food you buy at the ballgame your treat too. This will make him feel so appreciated. It is hard sometimes for the guys to come up with the cash for the dates, so this will say you really appreciate those times.

Video Game Night

You can always rent him the latest game for his video game system. You can plan on a video game night where you have snacks, and compete against him in the game or games that night. If you don’t understand how to play have your boyfriend show you how.

The Music He Likes

You could have a night centered around the music that he likes to listen to. Have several CDs from various groups or artists, that he likes and play them while you sit and cuddle on the couch and talk.

Cards

Playing cards is a great thing to do as valentines get together. You can play poker and have all sorts of strange bets. This could turn into a lot of fun for the evening.

Watch a Movie

Rent his favorite movie and have valentine decorated snacks. Watch the movie and have a fun movie night at home. You could instead take him out to a movie theater to watch a movie too. Find out which new movie is showing that he really wants to see.

Cook or Bake Something

Cook a romantic dinner for two. Investigate first the foods he likes so you can make all of his favorites. Even ask one of his relatives for a special recipe he likes. You could also bake his favorite dessert to go with this.

Hiking or Mountain Climbing

Maybe you two like to go hiking or mountain climbing. These are activities that can be done romantically as it pertains to Valentine’s Day when planned correctly.

Conclusion

This list of valentines ideas are just a fraction of the things you could do with your boyfriend. There are many more ideas that you can come up with that will be unique for your relationship.

The main thing is to do something with your boyfriend that you both will enjoying doing together for Valentine’s Day. Have fun with this and see what you can think up.

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