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Have you ever tried to put your best foot forward when asking a girl out on a date, only to have her turn you down flat? You thought you did everything exactly right, and she said no. If you had to all over again, what would you do differently? Here are some hints, so you can have better luck next time!

How to ask a girl out

Dress for Success: Clothes make the man, as they say. It’s not just the clothes, either. You start from the inside out.

1.      Posture: Head up, shoulders back, chest out, stomach in. Look people in the eye, and smile.

2.      Hygiene: Clean from head to toe. Tweeze whatever needs tweezing. Be careful with soaps and colognes, some girls are allergic. Check with a family member if you honestly don’t know how much is too much. Cologne is meant to enhance, not stand alone.

3.      Clothing: ‘Clean and unwrinkled’ is all that matters. Dress appropriately for wherever you’re headed.

4.      Attitude: If you’re in a bad mood, you have two choices. Get over it, or wait for another day. Nobody is going to want to date you if you’re in a lousy mood.

5.      If you’re hungry, eat: You won’t be at your best if you’re hungry. Grab a bite, then brush, floss, and mouthwash before heading out the door.

You’re going to want to be in a really good mood when you approach her. Be willing to be silly, fun, funny; in short, somebody she would only want to spend more time with.

Timing is Everything

Don’t ask her out unless and until you’ve determined there are some vibes floating between the two of you. Chemistry is everything. You thinking she’s cute isn’t going to carry any weight. Everybody thinks she’s cute, you’re not special on that front. Just chat! Have fun, get to know each other. If she wants you to ask her out, she’ll start sending flirty messages, i.e., licking her lips and looking at yours. Playing with her hair. Touching you. Now you’re ready to ask her out.

Getting to Know You, Getting to Know All About You

It’s the easiest thing in the world to say “So, what are you up to?” She may give you a noncommittal answer, like “Not much. You?” If she does that, keep talking. She’s cautious, but she hasn’t fled the building. Make a light joke, see if you can get some banter going. Allude to an interest, such as music or movies. If she remains silent, it may not be about you. You may have just picked a wrong time, and she has a lot on her mind. Don’t personalize it.

If you two do hit it off, you’re ready to ask her out.

A-B-C-, Easy as 1-2-3

The sparks are flying, so what do you do now? Watch for the right moment. Remain casual. When a shared interest comes up, roll with it. Say you’re talking about music, and you like the same group. A local band will be performing, and they remind you of the group you both like. Play it cool. “Hey, don’t know if you know – have you ever heard of the Such -n- So’s? No? Well, they’re trying to hit it big. They’re really good, and they’re playing at My Alibi Friday night. That place is a blast, you should come!”

See how you didn’t ask a question? You made it hard for her to say no. Don’t leave her an out. Do not say “Are you busy” or “If you’re not busy” or “Are you/Would you be interested”. Just make an opening for her to walk through, and make it clear she will be very happy she did.

The Specifics

Since it’s a first date, see how she wants to proceed. A simple “Would you like me to pick you up?” should cover it. Set a time, and exchange numbers. Call the day before to make sure everything is well and to let her know you’re looking forward to seeing her again.

The Date

Repeat “Dress for Success”. Be as punctual as possible. A few minutes early is okay. No more than five. However, if you are running late, call and tell her immediately. Do not leave her hanging. It’s a sign of disrespect. If you want the date to go anywhere, you need to show her that in your estimation, she matters.

When you are getting to know a new guy or dating your boyfriend, it is nice to get to know him better. The only way to do this at times is to ask him questions.

Sometimes these questions can be silly,  awkward,  or even embarrassing. While other times they can result to be hard, serious, personal or intimate questions to ask a guy.

You can have fun scattering them throughout the moments when you are with your boyfriend. You don’t need to ask them all at one time.

This would be like a grilling session if you did it. Just gradually ask the questions over time. Below are a group random and different “questions to ask a guy” to help you get started.

Good Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: 21 Questions To Ask A Guy

1. Are you busy later this week?

2. Did you like me right off the bat, or did it take time for me to grow on you?

3. Do you remember your first and who gave it to you?

4. What do you like to do for fun and relaxation?

5. If you could choose anywhere in the universe to spend one day where would it be?

6. What personality do you look for in your friends?

Random Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: Random Questions To Ask A Guy

1. What types of desserts do you enjoy eating?

2. Are you a vegetarian or do you eat meat?

3. Do you love to go to the gym or do you do it just because it is good for you?

4. Do you like to bowl?

5. Are you an outdoorsy person or do you like to be inside doing activities instead?

6. Are you computer savvy?

7. Are you an only child or do you have brothers and/or sisters?

8. Where did you get your education, or are you still in school?

9. What type of employment do you currently have?

10. Which new car model do you like?

11. Have you ever been hunting or fishing?

12. Do you love to compete with your friends on your video game system?

13. How do you like your eggs cooked?

14. Do you smoke?

15. Do you drink alcoholic beverages at all?

Interesting Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see my original post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1. Do you have special spiritual beliefs?

2. What 3 books would you take with you if you were going to travel to the future?

3. If time travel was possible, which year would you like to visit?

4. How do you see the future for you?

5. What aspirations do you have for your career?

6. What kind of financial future do you desire for yourself?

7. Have you ever been fingerprinted?

8. Have you ever had a dirty lie-detector test?

9. What is your job all about if you have one?

10. What state would you like to live in if you had a choice?

11. How did you spend your last perfect day?

12. Do you look forward to everyday or do you dread each new day?

13. Have you ever been deep-sea fishing?

14. Where do you want to be in 30 years?

15. What is your favorite educational program on TV?

16. What would you like to change about yourself?

17. What would you like me to change about me?

18. How many times a week do you like to go out?

19. If you won the jackpot on a lottery what is the first thing you would do with it?

20. Do you believe in doing charity work?

21. Have you ever been sailing?

22. Do you enjoy going to book readings or lectures?

23. Have you ever been to the opera? If not would you ever go?

24. If I loved going to plays would you take me even if you don’t enjoy them?

25. How long has it been since you went to the doctor?

26. Has any event in your life just blown you away? If so what was it?

Nice Questions to Ask a Guy

Also see the original post: Embarrassing Questions To Ask A Guy

1. What sports teams do you like watch for football (or whichever sport he likes)? How much to you watch them?

2. Have you always been this smart or did you have to work to get this way?

3. With those muscles do you workout?

4. Does your hair always look that way?

5. Where do you get the stylish clothes you wear?

6. Love that laptop you picked out for yourself, where did you buy it?

Personal Questions to Ask your Boyfriend

Also see my original post: Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1. Do you have any enemies or people that have a problem with you? How do you try to handle them.

2. Do you use an electric razor to shave or do you still use shaving cream and manual razor.

3. Do you wear briefs or are you that boxer-type of guy?

4. What kind of deodorant do you use?

5. Are you loyal to one girl or do you always play the naughty field?

6. What made you fall for me in the beginning of our relationship?

7. Do I send off signals when I am “in the mood”?

8. Are you an honest person or do you tell lies when you have to?

9. What religious beliefs do you hold?

10. Are you a good dancer or do you stink on the dance floor?

11. Do you understand the need to do foreplay on women?

12. On a scale of 1 to 10 how do you rate my looks?

13. On a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rate your looks?

14. Do you have dreams about me? If so, are they x-rated ones?

15. Are there times when you like total privacy? If so when?

You can see how much fun and informative asking questions could be from this list. Just think of all the other funny and good questions to ask a guy you could come up with too. Remember though not to ask all these questions at one time. They are more fun when they slowly and naturally seep into a conversation.

If you need some ideas on how to ask a girl to prom, we have them! We have some creative ways in fact for you to do this.

We can help you get that favorite girl to notice you and say that she will go with you to prom.

You Have to Get Noticed

So prom is coming up soon and you know which one of the girls you want to go with you as your date.

There is always the boring “Will you go with me to the prom?”. That is being straight forward and it is easy to understand, but it is not very exciting.

You need to do something to get noticed by this desired date. There will be other boys asking to the prom too after all. Then prom only happen a few times for a girl so she is going to go with the guy that has made the best impression on her. The way you ask her should at least make her consider you as a possible date, if not make up her mind all together.

Creative Methods of Asking a Girl to the Prom

Now it is tricky to be nice and creative with how you ask this girl to the prom, because if you go too far it may just come off silly. You don’t want to do anything so outlandish that it would embarrass the girl, she will accept someone else’s request for the date to the prom if this happens. Read on for some fun suggestions to how to ask a girl to a prom.

Box of Candy

If the girl of your likes candy, write a note asking her to the prom and place on or in a box of candy. Make a point to give it to her when no other guys are around her. Take it to her house or maybe take her on a date if you two are dating already.

Take out an Ad

You can place an ad in a magazine the girl reads, newspaper, or the school newspaper. Then you will need to make sure to deliver it to her so she is sure to read it. You can just simply word the ad using just your first names and to go something like, “Mary will be my lovely date for the school prom please. If you agree it will make my heart skip a beat. ~ Jerrod”.

Car Sign

If you want to make a big public plea, make a car sign. There are places to get cheap magnetic signs made up and you can pop the prom question on the sign and stick it to your car. She will probably see it, but if she doesn’t one of her friends surely will and tell her. You could also offer to drive her home from school one day for her to see it.

There are many more creative ways that you could come with on your own. The main thing to remember is if she is a shy girl don’t do anything that may embarrass her, in this quest to get her to go to the prom with you. Other than that have fun with this and you will get her to agree! Have fun at the prom!