What if
things do not work out after marriage?
If things
do not work out after marriage is because the relationship is
not given the proper care.
This
is
because relationships are similar to a human being. It is born, it
grows and it matures.
Depending on the care that it is giving, it could grow stronger, get
sicker or die. Within marriage, a dead relationship means a possible
divorce.
The only
miracle that can make it resurrect is called love. Love can
also cure it if gets sick, and love can also make it stronger while it
grows and matures. |
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Love
is
universal in all the aspects of every relationship,
however, those who do not understand the real meaning of love
are not capable of preforming the mentioned miracles of healing.
Many
relationships fail because they do not realize that they have to
maintain, support and feed it with the presence of love. They must take
care of it just like if were to be a living being.
Marriage is the
most
important relationship that must be taken care of,
and if it is not, there is no doubt that it will get sick which could
possibly lead to secondary consequences.
This is the exact
same
reason why much time needs to be dedicated
before making the decision of marriage. Because once in marriage, the only
way
out is either through death or divorce,
and both are hard
choices that leave terrible scars.
The couple
who understand
what is the meaning
of love, do not have to worry
about separation
because they live in forgiveness and comprehension.
If you were to ask
a sick
relationship "what am I suppose to do if
things do not work out after marriage?" you will usually get this
similar response: "what
you need to
do is to try to make things workout as planned because you're already
married. You have to move forward with your new responsibility and
that's the reality."
This is definitely
a good
example of a response without love, and it is
definitely the same attitude that leads to failure. |
What
is
love?
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