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What if things do not work out after marriage?

If things do not work out after marriage is because the relationship is not given the proper care.

This is because relationships are similar to a human being. It is born, it grows and it matures. Depending on the care that it is giving, it could grow stronger, get sicker or die. Within marriage, a dead relationship means a possible divorce.

The only miracle that can make it resurrect is called love. Love can also cure it if gets sick, and love can also make it stronger while it grows and matures.

Love is universal in all the aspects of every relationship, however, those who do not understand the real meaning of love are not capable of preforming the mentioned miracles of healing.

Many relationships fail because they do not realize that they have to maintain, support and feed it with the presence of love. They must take care of it just like if were to be a living being.

Marriage is the most important relationship that must be taken care of, and if it is not, there is no doubt that it will get sick which could possibly lead to secondary consequences.

This is the exact same reason why much time needs to be dedicated before making the decision of marriage. Because once in marriage, the only way out is either through death or divorce, and both are hard choices that leave terrible scars.

The couple who understand what is the meaning of love, do not have to worry about separation because they live in forgiveness and comprehension.

If you were to ask a sick relationship "what am I suppose to do if things do not work out after marriage?" you will usually get this similar response: "what you need to do is to try to make things workout as planned because you're already married. You have to move forward with your new responsibility and that's the reality."

This is definitely a good example of a response without love, and it is definitely the same attitude that leads to failure.

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